coddledLeaders are an interesting bunch. And by “leaders,” in this case, I’m referring to the people at the top of the organizational chart. The C-suite folks. Generally speaking they’re impressive people. They’ve done a lot to move up the ranks to their position. They’re smart and sharp. They’re adept at making the right moves in complex systems.

So how do we reward them? We stop telling them the truth. We refuse to share news with them if it’s bad. We pat ourselves on the back when we guess correctly about what they want or need (but we don’t think twice about guessing, rather than asking). We spare them the details.

We mean well, of course. They are busy and they don’t have time for all that. I get it. But it’s a slippery slope. It starts with sparing them the details, and it ends up with the emperor having no clothes and no one telling him about it.

And leaders are not about to stand up and change this system. While they don’t like it when people don’t tell them the truth, I think they do like being above all the details. It’s the reward for all those years in the trenches. But that’s a mistake. Because by the time you get to the top, the trenches that other people are now working in are quite different than the trenches you knew. So to some extent you can’t be spared the details, at least not entirely.

It shouldn’t be a rule that when you get to the leader position, every one else takes care of you. That’s not leadership, and it generates some unhealthy patterns.

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Jamie Notter